I believe you are correct about it being an Audi part for the FPR. The pump is tricky, but I think Mike at MTM can source one for you. I talked to him for quite a while about the tune I have and he told me that OCT is an extremely good company and their tune is usually on the conservative side, which I like for reliability. There is one thing to remember about any off-the-shelf tune like what I have. A custom tune will always be better, because it is tailored for only one car and not 100's. I got lucky with mine, because it drives the way I want, but I've ran across some owners that have OCT in their RS6's and S4's that drive exactly how I was describing earlier. Massive mid range boost and then it tapers off quickly. I would not have been happy if mine did that.
As far as the kickdown, yes mine still kicks down even in Tip mode. I would prefer it be like yours, but I'm happy enough with it I won't change it. Plus my TCU chip was closer to $1,200 back in 04 when it was done. You can definitely tell the car has a TCU chip as soon as you drive it. It tries to hold lower gears and it shifts very quickly. That might be why I've never had any transmission issues (knock on wood. I know I will). All in all, OCT has been a good company for me, but I've heard nightmare stories from others with their tuning. Luck of the Irish I guess.