Not a fool, you made the calculated decision of wanting the car early and hoping the ride is to your liking instead of waiting to see for sure and be late to the party, my point was that Qisha's comments can't really confirm the ride will suit you, only you can determine that question as Qisha's preference might be to a firmer setup than you. He might reassure you a bit but only that.
One thing that will help is more reports coming back from multiple sources saying the same thing, if most say it's well judged then great.
Audiworld and Autocar say it's ride is good so that's a great start.